Do you ever feel like you have to do everything?
What I mean is, do you ever feel like the world expects so much of you?
For instance, lately I have been feeling like in order to be a good wife and mother I need to:
have my house clean at all times,
cook amazing meals made from scratch,
craft the life out of my scissors and glue gun,
refurbish every piece of furniture in my house,
piece and sew a king size quilt,
go thrifting every Thursday,
lose 20 lbs in 20 days,
clip coupons and spend only $10 on this weeks groceries,
get a masters degree,
be involved and make a stand in politics and current events,
redecorate my entire house,
prepare for a natural disaster,
plant a garden,
take the most awesome and best photos ever...
...and make a witty tutorial on my blog about how I did all of it...
...all while trying to spend time with my husband and child, complete the daily to do list and try to get some sleep.
Ever feel that way?
I've had a few reminders lately of what's most important...
These videos:
“Whatever the era, whatever the times, one thing will never change: Fathers and mothers, if you have children, they must come first. You must read to your children and you must hug your children and you must love your children. Your success as a family, our success as a society, depends not on what happens in the White House but on what happens inside your house.”
("Text of Mrs. Bush's Speech," Washington Post, June 2, 1990)
I don't have to feel guilty taking time for cleaning and cooking, it's fun to craft and take pictures, I'm still doing the BIGGEST loser challenge, and as I love spending time decorating my house...
...but I can spend more time remembering what's most important.
...and less time living up to the world's expectations.